My husband and myself are relocating from NY to Oregon. We are driving SUV across America starting on Sat Oct 29. We have only 6-7 days to make a trip. It is our first trip across the country and we have never been in the Midwest. So any advice on itinerary and tip for the road will be helpful.

Any advice on the most notable places to stay/see on the road. Should we stay on US territory and cross from Buffalo to Detroit through Canada ? Is it generally safe driving and staying in motels in midwest? Should we avoid any particular places and situations?

thank you in advance
Jzlot