Due to my girlfriend's health issues she can't be in high elevation, we have taken the Grapevine before and it was horrendous for her, he have gone around through the east through the desert and it still got pretty high. I've taken the 1 but that just takes too long. Does anyone know of a better route or a website that can figure out the lowest elevation route to get somewhere? We have a wedding to go to Friday May 6th and we are leaving San Diego Thursday night and driving all the way there starting at about 8pm. The wedding is at 5pm on a boat that is coming out of Alameda so maybe leaving early Friday morning is possible if need be. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you!