Hopefully this will be the last time I need to ask for advice...
We hope not ! ;-) [Not never ever!] lol

I would be looking at the Cambria/Cayacus area to give you plenty of time around Big Sur for stopping and enjoying the scenery and parks. I have no personal experience of a particular place to recommend to stay.

Climbing orange,lemon,grapefruit and avocado trees to collect fruit. It's certainly something we won't forget from our holiday).
It's these magic moments that sets the Roadtrip apart from everything else and are often the most memorable. Thanks for sharing !!

Dave.