My boyfriend and I are moving from Boston to Honolulu in December 2003. We would like to figure out the best and cheapest ways to do this. Any kind of advice will help. Some of the things we were thinking of doing was 1. driving our own car to San Diego (where his aunt lives) and flying to Honolulu while our car is shipped. Is this a good idea? 2. getting an apt online before even seeing it 3. we were wondering how one goes about finding one of those people that leave to go to their other houses and need house sitters. 4. how much does it usually cost in gas to get across country? Anyhow it would be great to get some ideas regarding anything and everything~thanks and Peace.