It's good to share different views.
No need to apologise Harry, we all have our preferences and base suggestions on them. One of the reasons to reverse it was that if they are still going to Point Reyes and SF they will be heading south down the coast putting the ocean on their side of the road and besides that it really doesn't matter what direction a loop trip takes, you can still go to all the same places. Having said that, I would still prefer Capitol Reef, Bryce canyon and Big Sur to New Mexico, but that's me. Add to that the fact it would then be possible to visit Rocky mountain NP as well and it's kind of appealing. Of course the most important thing is the OP does his own thing while we just put the suggestions out there and help piece it together.
Dave.