virginai beach, myrtle beach
your post didnt say what time of year you would be going. i have been to both myrtle beach and virginia beach several times but in late april, early may and in mid october. both of these times are before/after the main tourist season and the weather and water are still great. (at least when i went) october was the best as everything was still open but all the tourists were gone. we partied with several locals and a LOT of military men from the nearby base. i would think it would be ok to stop up until about mid june, after that i definatly agree with angus that you should avoid both. angus definatly knows his travel stuff but doesnt think like a single girl!!! if you are at all attracted to military men it is a great off season place to party. although with the impending war there might not be too many around. either way have fun!!!