Quick and Dirty Cross Country
We are planning a two week coast to coast, roundtrip road trip. Yes, we realize we may well be crazy. We plan to spend two nights in LA and 3 in Sonoma County, but besides that nothing is really a must. Any suggestions for best cheap places to stop, quick drive by must see items, routes, WHATEVER. Starting in VA and ending in PA.
the line between crazy and dangerous
Far too often people have these romanticized ideas of cannon-ball run style cross country trips, and it leads them to making plans that aren't just "crazy," they end up being so much work, they leave you exhausted and unable to enjoy anything, and at worst, end up being unsafe.
The reality is you are already at the very maximum of what can be done safely, and I doubt you'd end up having much fun. VA and PA are big states, so things might shift a bit based on your exact starting ending points but here is the reality.
You need a minimum of 4 overnight stops (4.5 to 5 days) to get from anywhere in VA to Los Angeles safely.
You're looking at nearly a full day to drive from LA to Sonoma County.
You need a minimum of 5 full days to get from Northern California back to PA.
So what your trip looks like is Days 1-5 all day on the road arriving late on day 5 for your first overnight in LA, Spend day 6 in LA, Day 7 is driving to Sonoma, Day 8-9 are in Sonoma, Days 10-14 are driving home.
It's not impossible, but it's not much fun. That plan leaves zero time for extra stops, detours, or anything fun while you are trying to cover 600 miles a day on the road - the maximum that you can safely cover each day, even with multiple drivers. If you try to squeeze in more "fun," by trying to cover more miles than that each day, you'll quickly run yourself into a dangerous situation.